Some of the biggest questions asked are... "How can I connect with my person" " What do I need to do" "How do I know they are there" " What kind of things should I be seeing or hearing"
People become desperate for reconnection & in their desperation they actually block the connection they desire.
The first year of loss is confusing, feeling separated from everyone.....You have moments of feeling that you are falling from an airplane with no parachute... Friends & family will gather ...helping in different ways ... giving you hope & allowing you to feel all your emotions. Part of the problem though, is what you really crave is your connection with the person that is now gone from the earth plane... and that is where, learning the new language of love & communication comes.
This new language is because your loved one does not have the same voice as they once did. Just like not all of us can speak German or Japanese or even sign language, any one of us can learn to speak in this new way. It would be wonderful if we could all have Clairaudience ( clear hearing) but that is not the case.
Everyone has gifts, but all are different and in different degrees.....
There is :
Clairvoyance : clear seeing : includes clear dreams, premonitions , or seeing Spirit in your minds eye
Clairsalience : clear sense of smell : perfume, pipe smoke, cigarette, etc.
Clairaudience : clear hearing : being able to hear Spirit talk to you
Clairsentience : clear sense of feeling : I think that this is one is one of the most common & the one that may appear first when you are learning.... it can be one of the most challenging as well for you must take that feeling and change it to words that can be understood
Clairtangency : clear sense of touch... The ability to know things by holding an object
Clairgustance : clear sense of taste ....The ability to taste things in your mouth.. like garlic or blood etc.
People may have one or more of these "Clairs " as well as some may come for a bit and then change to something else... as I tell everyone.. it is always an experiment.. !
So.. how can you start to develop one or more of the clairs yourself?
Build your Intuition... learn how to open your 3rd eye , your heart chakra, your solar plexus, & your crown chakra... while balancing your lower chakra centers : your root , your sacral & grounding ..
I know it can sound overwhelming, but like anything it is baby steps... one thing at a time.
first learn about the chakras... where they are and what they do... ( I will have a post on that next week)
next... Learn to meditate.... to sit and allow.... it is not about getting your mind to be quiet.. it is about detaching from the sounds, thoughts, grocery list etc. that run through your mind constantly.
Allowing them to just pass by without judgement... and the longer you practice the art of meditation, the better you will become... & the less crazy thoughts that will occur while in meditation.
I have a few free guided meditations for you to try out if you like on my
Youtube channel: "the Whispers In Ashes" or "Art-life-Etc."
When you start to feel comfortable with your meditations it is always best to find a group or Spiritual Church to help guide you into learning the language of Spirit and developing your connection.
The exception to this is if you have a Whispers In Ashes Cremation Painting or Urn.... I supply a guided meditation that will help you build your connection to that painting & your loved one.
This does not necessarily mean that you can have connection to other Spirits as the meditation supplied is directly for the thread of love between you & your beloved.
Some of the more simple signs you may see or experience without doing any of the above exercises may include but not limited to.....
BIRDS
FEATHERS
SONGS REPEATED : EX : SAME SONG EVER TIME YOU GET IN THE CAR
COINS IN WEIRD PLACES OR REPEATED COINS ALL OVER THE PLACE
BANGS OR COLD BREEZES
So, in closing, if you do experience any of these signs,,, say out loud or in your mind... I see you or I hear you.... Or Hi my love...
The more you let them know you recognize the symbols of connection they are giving you, the more they will show you and the more you will start to connect.
HOPE THIS BRINGS A LITTLE BIT OF PEACE.... HELPING YOUR HEART MIND & SOUL...
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